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Thursday, February 28, 2013
Blux Touch's latest innovation 'Wave & Pose' hit the App Stores worldwide on February 22, 2013

Wave&Pose Cool!

posted by Caroline Tham @ 2/28/2013 04:30:00 PM

Saturday, July 10, 2010
鄭秀文 - 不要驚動愛情(國語)

True Love is so well describe here... may my heart understand and be still...



太想觸摸你 所以躲開你 多少的距離 會讓你好奇 逃過你雙眼 才偷偷喘氣 吩咐我雙手 停泊原地 聽說浪漫的快 戀愛都去的快 我才 每一秒都放棄 說一直愛著你 我的愛洶湧像大海 而我卻要忍耐 只願一天你會醒來 愛情會像翅膀打開 還沒有擁抱不要意外 等待上帝安排 將來細水長流 我們才承諾 拿一生去換愛 太想要擁抱 所以在祈禱 求學會放手 慢慢去尋找 找不到完美 找天長地老 當雙眼模糊 還會擁抱 一步一步靠近 你才會珍惜我 的心 因為我還相信 有永恆的愛情 我的愛洶湧像大海 而我卻要忍耐 只願一天你會醒來 愛情會像翅膀打開 還沒有擁抱不要意外 等待...

posted by Caroline Tham @ 7/10/2010 03:28:00 AM

Friday, May 7, 2010
Mothers


Mothers are teachers. Mothers are disciplinarians. Mothers are cleaning ladies. Some mothers are gardeners & mowers of lawns. And most mothers understand that baking cookies is more important than washing windows, too.

Mothers are nurses & doctors & psychologists & counselors & chauffeurs & coaches. Mothers are developers of personalities, molders of vocabularies, & shapers of attitudes. Mothers are soft voices saying, "I love you." And mothers are a link to God, a child’s first impression of God’s love.

Mothers are all of these things & much, much more.


One of my favorite columns by Erma Bombeck tells of God in the act of creating mothers. She says that on the day God created mothers He had already worked long overtime. And an angel said to Him, "Lord, you sure are spending a lot of time on this one."

The Lord turned & said, "Have you read the specs on this model? She is supposed to be completely washable, but not plastic. She is to have 180 moving parts, all of them replaceable. She is to have a kiss that will heal everything from a broken leg to a broken heart. She is to have a lap that will disappear whenever she stands up. She is to be able to function on black coffee & leftovers. And she is supposed to have six pairs of hands."

"Six pairs of hands," said the angel, "that’s impossible." "It’s not the six pairs of hands that bother me." said the Lord, "It’s the three pairs of eyes. She is supposed to have one pair that sees through closed doors so that whenever she says, `What are you kids doing in there?’ she already knows what they’re doing in there."

"She has another pair in the back of her head to see all the things she is not supposed to see but must see. And then she has one pair right in front that can look at a child that just goofed & communicate love & understanding without saying a word."

"That’s too much." said the angel, "You can’t put that much in one model. Why don’t you rest for a while & resume your creating tomorrow?"

"No, I can’t," said the Lord. "I’m close to creating someone very much like myself. I’ve already come up with a model who can heal herself when she is sick - who can feed a family of six with one pound of hamburger - & who can persuade a nine year old to take a shower."

Then the angel looked at the model of motherhood a little more closely & said, "She’s too soft." "Oh, but she is tough," said the Lord. "You’d be surprised at how much this mother can do."

"Can she think?" asked the angel. "Not only can she think," said the Lord, "but she can reason & compromise & persuade."

Then the angel reached over & touched her cheek. "This one has a leak," he said. "I told you that you couldn’t put that much in one model." "That’s not a leak," said the Lord. "That’s a tear."

"What’s a tear for?" asked the angel. "Well it’s for joy, for sadness, for sorrow, for disappointment, for pride." "You’re a genius," said the angel. And the Lord said, "Oh, but I didn’t put it there."

I suppose that is why today is very special - because we recognize that mother’s love is probably the closest example we have to God’s love. It is a love that goes through the valley of the shadow of death to bring life into being. It is a love that sacrifices itself over & over again & would even dare to lay down its life for its own offspring.

The story is told - out of WW 2 & the holocaust that took the lives of millions of people - of Solomon Rosenberg & his family. It is a true story.

Solomon Rosenberg & his wife & their 2 sons & his mother & father were arrested & placed in a Nazi concentration camp. It was a labor camp, & the rules were simple. "As long as you can do your work, you are permitted to live. When you become too weak to do your work, then you are exterminated."

Rosenberg watched his mother & father marched off to their deaths, & he knew that next would be his youngest son, David, because David had always been a frail child.

Every evening Rosenberg came back into the barracks after his hours of labor & searched for the faces of his family. When he found them they would huddle together, embrace one another, & thank God for another day of life.

One day Rosenberg came back & didn’t see those familiar faces. He finally discovered his oldest son, Joshua, in a corner, huddled, weeping, & praying. He said, "Josh, tell me it’s not true." Joshua turned & said, "It is true, poppa. Today David was not strong enough to do his work. So they came for him."

"But where is your mother?" asked Mr. Rosenberg. "Oh poppa," he said, "When they came for David, he was afraid & he cried. Momma said, `There is nothing to be afraid of, David,’ & she took his hand & went with him."

That is motherhood. Mothers, this is your day. May God bless you in it.
To some if you have felt that you have had to walk through that valley alone so many times, that you will recognize there is a hand reaching out to you, saying, "There is nothing to be afraid of. I’ll go with you."

And I pray that you will recognize that that one has already gone through the valley of the shadow for you, & made it possible for you to live forever.

posted by Caroline Tham @ 5/07/2010 11:10:00 PM

Wednesday, July 15, 2009
How to make dreams come to pass!!!


Hey guys I am back after a super long break! It does take alot of time and effort to upkeep a blog! I realize you really need to sit in front of a computer and think, type, search for pictures... for me I prefer personal contact! Being a sanguine, talking, chatting, having coffee, a meal is always preferred! Being at the computer means I cant do that or I have to do it really late in the night! But I will still try, it is an effective tools to mass keep in touch! Its a good place to share some insights and revelation! So here we go... love this post by Pst Phil... I so need it now... more of it!!


I believe in diligent! Diligent is checking on everything all the time in your business, your organization! Give attention to it at every levels and it will grow! I am so going to do that!

Well, next post I will be updating on the whole month of June and watch out... the summary of Market Place Convention with Pst Bernard!!! It was mind BLOWING!!!! Cant wait to hear it again! (Bought the cds) If you are curious and wanna borrow my cds... you know my mobileberry... give me a sms! Love you guys so much!

posted by Caroline Tham @ 7/15/2009 01:32:00 AM

Tuesday, June 2, 2009
True Princess

The book, The True Princess by Angela Elwell Hunt, looked like something little girls may want to read, and the pictures were beautiful.



I picked it up and started reading the story, which was about a King who had a beautiful little girl whom he loved very much. She had everything any little girl could ever want. Poets wrote poems and musicians sang songs about her. There were maids to dress her and jokers to make her laugh. And she had a caregiver, Nana, who took care of her, and her father, the king, who loved her.

Her father suddenly had to go away and was leaving her in the care of Nana. The princess was worried because she didn't know who would feed her, dress her, sing for her or make her laugh. The king explained that one day she would help rule the kingdom but she had to learn many things first. He comforted her by telling her that Nana would be with her and that because Nana was following his wishes, the princess would never be out of his care.

The King and Nana knew the princess had to be kept safe so they put her in regular clothes and hid her away from the palace in a little bakery house because "no one would expect the child of the king to be living as a servant."

Nana taught the princess how to dress herself and sing songs from her heart, and when the little girl put too much yeast into a loaf of bread and the dough exploded all over the kitchen, the princess learned to laugh at herself.

One day, news reached the kingdom that the king would be returning soon. Everyone had looked all over for the princess, but she could not be found. Many girls in the kingdom thought they could take her place so they spent hours beautifying and making themselves ready.

When the king returned and was ready to receive his daughter, the guards opened the door and the king surprisingly found 25 little girls waiting for him, 24 beautifully dressed and one in a patched dress at the back of the crowd.

The king smiled at the crowd and asked the first little girl to help his servant put on his cloak. The little girl refused and said, "A true princess has maids to do that." The king stopped in front of the second little girl and asked her to sing a song for the kitchen helpers. That little girl frowned and said, "A princess hires singers to sing for them." The king paused in front of the third and asked her to tell his soldiers a funny story. She told him to "Call the royal jokers. That's what a REAL princess would do."

The king looked at the group and asked if there was anyone who would be willing to serve him in any way.
The quiet girl in the patched dress spoke up and said, "I'd be happy to, Sire," she whispered. "Because I love you."
The king hugged the little girl close and said,
"It is love that marks the true daughter of the king."

It touches my heart deeply when I read it. Why? Because it's the love story that I have come to know so well through my relationship with God as my Abba.

The King went away but He left His Holy Spirit to teach us all things, "to guide [us] into all truth" (John 16:13, NKJV), so that we will be ready when He returns for us. We must be diligent to learn all He wants us to know.
And when He returns, He will know us by our love!

Every little girl dreams of someday becoming a princess with lovely things, but
A True Princess is recognized by her servant's heart.

This is a story that I would love to tell every girl... and hopefully my daughter one day!

"Child of the pure, unclouded brow And dreaming eyes of wonder! Though time be fleet and I and thou Are half a life asunder, Thy loving smile will surely hail The love-gift of a fairy tale" -Lewis Carroll

posted by Caroline Tham @ 6/02/2009 12:00:00 PM

Tuesday, May 26, 2009
Eden... There is a longing in my heart... to be Kiss again



When God created the universe He spoke it into existence.

But, when He created us - His children, His image - He got His hands dirty. He dug His fingers into the clay and formed us from the earth. Kneeling down over the man-formed mound of dirt, God placed His lips on Adam's and breathed life into him. "And man became a living soul."

Our anthropology doesn't start with "the Fall" it starts with "a Kiss." We are the descendants of Adam. We are God's very image walking around on legs ... all of us. The good, the bad and the ugly - His image!

The problem is, we've been infected with a virus called sin, and that virus has been passed down from generation to generation. But our Heavenly Father has found the cure and delivered it Himself: a blood transfusion. His blood. It was the only way He could reconcile His creation back to Himself.

Yes, we may not be perfect, some of us still feel very much like a sinner, but we are NOT sin. And neither are you. We are the image of God.

Broken? Yes.
But His image, nonetheless.

And He didn't think we were "good-for-nothing," in fact, He sent the best He had to rescue us. He came Himself. "He thought it not robbery." He felt good about the deal: His life for ours.


I believe inside the DNA of every human there is something that remembers Eden. A faint recollection of footsteps crushing leaves beneath them in the cool of the day ... our hearts jumping for joy as we ran to our Father.

He always came in the cool of the day. You could count on it. He never missed. He would throw us in the air and catch us (like parents have been doing with their children ever since). He walked with us and talked with us.

Then we were infected. We sinned. All of a sudden we knew we were naked. We felt ashamed. We grabbed fig leaves to cover ourselves, and we've been grabbing them ever since. But fig leaves always crumble in the fall.

After we sinned, He still came in the cool of the day. We hid. But He still came. He didn't come because of our goodness, or because of our sinfulness. He came because we were His.
There's an ache inside of me that longs for Eden.

7 years ago, someone very dear once prayed for me and said she saw a vision of me as a little girl in a garden, holding tightly hand in hand with a Man... She could hear us chatting excitedly, laughing and giggling away, skipping side by side. I was contented, at peace and perfectly loved by Him. She whispered to me," Carol, God want you to know that you can be happy! You will be happy! Just like what I saw in my vision!" Something broke inside of me that night...a dam was broken and out flow a stream of the purest sparkling refreshing water that runs through the desert of my heart... You see, deep down in my heart I could not believe I can ever be happy again.



Every now and then something will remind me of HOME. It's almost like a "thin place" - where the veil between this life and the "other side" almost become one - the dark glass clears for a second. And for a brief moment things make sense.

Something tells me our greatest days are ahead. And, it's going to be wonderful ... beyond comprehension. A thousand Walt Disney's couldn't imagine it. I know it's there. I know it's real. I know it's home. And everything will be clear. Perfectly clear.

Where we're headed is even better than Eden. It's The New Jerusalem. Where, once again, we will hear His footsteps in the cool of the day. The God who came for us ... walked with us ... delivered us ... and brought us back Home.
The very One who started it all with a kiss.


posted by Caroline Tham @ 5/26/2009 11:48:00 PM


Its been pretty crazy the last 2 weeks. So much is running through my mind and heart that there are times I feel like I almost gonna stop breathing in order to pull back moments.

So much to blog, dont really know where to start. I wonder if anyone can start an audio blogging? You know, instead of writing, we record our thoughts, feeling and experience in audio and post it online! That will be so cool. So much easier... hahahah for a sanguine its heaven! I articulate better when I speak it out than I write. Well, for now this will have to do! Watch out for more to come!

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SCHOOLZ is OUT,PARTY time!!!!

posted by Caroline Tham @ 5/26/2009 11:35:00 PM

Tuesday, May 12, 2009
Unity...E328



Beside being a Financial Planner aka Insurance agent in the day, one of the most fun things I do beside that is to sit in different cell group meeting! I have been longing and wanting to go to one of the most fun loving, talkative and lovely cg E328!!!



The CG was at Tampines, the host who is also the co-leader of the group, Clarice, was so hospitable and chic looking... see how cool she is even when she is moping the floor!





We started out with refreshment and non-stop chatting! These youth are soooooo friendly! They put even the most shy person at ease! Laughter filled the rooms as we started the game. Nothing fanciful, but what impresses me the most was that every single member was enjoying each other company, chatting up with one another and it seem like none was being left out.




Such unity, such love... such "family"! Can't help but to be reminder of this verse:

John 17:23
"I am in them and you are in me. May they experience such perfect unity that the world will know that you sent me and that you love them as much as you love me."



So who is the WOMAN behind such AWWWwwweeeeSSsoome CG? She may be tiny BUT she have a dynamic voice and is super fast in SMS! (hur hur...all in favor say "I") hahahah...

BUT I LOVE HER!!! She is passionate for young people! Fiercely loyal! Super efficient! Awesome in numbers! Every time I ask her," Karen do you think we can ... her reply:"SURE! NO PROBLEM!" And off she goes, making sure everything come to pass!

Can anyone ask for a better friend? One of the young ladies that I love, treasure and respect very much! Keep it up Karen!


posted by Caroline Tham @ 5/12/2009 04:20:00 AM




If there is anyone who has seen me at my lowest and ugliest beside God will be my Mummy. To be faithful, hopeful and enduring, in spite of what she has seen and went through, is the best gift that I have ever received from her! Mind you, we are really not perfect! But that's the beauty of it, imperfection bring out the greatness of love.
Nothing fanciful on Sunday but we bake cookie and cake together! When I was young, my mommy use to bake rock cake for me and my brother weekly! Its like a special treat and bonding time, while I lingered at the backyard seeing how she sift the flour, rub in the butter, mixed the batter and I will just talk and talk and talk to her... (YEP I am a Sanguine!) Waiting for the cookie and rock buns! The aroma of butter and cake saturated the house and coming home from school is always exciting and forwarding looking during those special days! (Yum Yum...cookies)



I have received quite a bit of flowers, folded paper hearts on Saturday and a bottled of freshly squeezed orange juice! Some of which call me their spiritual mom! (blush blush... you know who you are!) Thank you & I am honored, and I love you too!


However, Mother's day has always created mixed feeling for me. Don't get me wrong, I have a wonderful mom and I am grateful for her. But weighing heavily in my heart are for those who doesn't or those who have lost theirs and for those who long to be one.

I’ve never been married, never been pregnant, never been anywhere near becoming a mom. Most days this doesn’t bother me too much. But sometimes it does. (especially when I am surrounded with so many cute and adorable babies that I cant seem to get enough!) Never felt what its like to feel rejected and disconnected from the every woman that bore you for 9 months and are suppose to nurture and connect with you. Nor apprehend the emptiness and loss of a mom to death.

This twinge is especially likely to show up on Mother’s Day, when we often ask the oldest and most prolific moms in our church congregations to stand for admiration, applause, and a presents.

But I know that underneath those supportive smiles and clapping hands there are a lot of hurting women or child on Mother’s Day. Daughters, sons Or moms who just avoid mother's day in May.

I wish all of us who hurt on Mother’s Day could gather for our own celebration. We could cry and pray and rant and rejoice. We could alternately shake our fist at God and then lean into him for the only love that truly comforts. And we would look at each other with a shared knowing that this world is broken, and that this just happens to be how that brokenness has touched each of us.

Sometime, I imagine Jesus on Mother’s Day, thinking about his earthly mom, Mary. Reflecting on how she blindly trusted while he was nestled in her womb (Luke 1:38), how she nagged him to perform a miracle before it was his appointed time (John 2:1-11), how he likely broke her heart a bit when she went to see him once and he asked “who is my mother?” (Matthew 12:46-50), how he spent some of his dying breaths making sure she’d be taken care of (John 19:26-27). Surely our Savior understands the messy emotions of moms and motherhood and this special day we live out God’s command to honor these givers and protectors and nurturers of life.

So this Mother’s Day, I’ll celebrate with you my friends, no matter who you are, what you have gone through, what you have lost, what you are still waiting for, the constancy and surety of our loving, heavenly Abba.

Can words describe my gratitude and love for Mummy... Can I understand you enough even though I am not a mother yet? Can I ever repay you for what you have sacrifice... Can I ever thank you enough?

I don't know, all I know is that I want to learn to love you more everyday, to understand your heart, to be faithful like you have to me, to give and love like you have given and loved me. I just want to treasure you every single day!

posted by Caroline Tham @ 5/12/2009 12:32:00 AM

Friday, May 8, 2009
A New Heart... Bizarre, Out of this world & Creative!

Had an awesome awesome session with our very own CHC Poh! He was so funny and inspirational, giving us golden nuggets of his life experience. And when he playfully strum his guitar and sing, it gives u goose bumps and made yr toes curl because of such precision skills and strong presence. He shared with us his special moments with God in his life that never fail to encourage him and spur him on during difficult and dry time in his life.

I remember special moments like these with Him, where i spend hours upon hours just singing, breaking into new love songs and getting lost in time. Today session made me wanna rush home to be alone with God & worship.

Poh shared on being bizarre, out of this world and very creative in worship leading, guitar skills and writing songs that will usher in the presence of God for this new millennium. Only when we try new things will there be new anointing!

God want us to have a new heart more than just new song, new guitar, new haircut...because only a renew heart can have new vision, stronger passion, deeper love, bigger touch and new songs. We must be touch by God first through worship before He can birth a vision inside of us.


Worship is the art of singing from the heart.


He end off the session with this:" God's presence is EVERYWHERE but He is waiting for a person who want and know how to connect with Him, who will diligently seek Him TILL he find Him... I want to be that ONE...

My life is your song
I'll sing for You alone
Nothing in this world
can take me away from You
Our Love goes on and on...

Nite

posted by Caroline Tham @ 5/08/2009 12:33:00 AM

Thursday, May 7, 2009
Failure

Started 2009 Sharing at my last CG meeting with this short but powerful message by John C. Maxwell. I told them I have always taught you how to win, how to have faith but never shared with you how to "Fail"! (You shld see their face!hahaha...) WELL, knowing how to fail is as important if not more important than how to win! This msg served as a reminder to us all again and again in life. Hope it will bless you! Here is the summary...

"A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing."


Vincent Van Gogh failed as an art dealer, flunked his entrance exam to theology school, and was fired by the church after an ill-fated attempt at missionary work. In fact, during his life, he seldom experienced anything other than failure as an artist. Although a single painting by Van Gogh would fetch in excess of $100 million today, in his lifetime Van Gogh sold only one painting, four months prior to his death.

Before developing his theory of relativity, Albert Einstein encountered academic failure. One headmaster expelled Einstein from school and another teacher predicted that he would never amount to anything. Einstein even failed his entrance exam into college.

Prior to dazzling the world with his athletic skill, Michael Jordan was cut from his sophomore basketball team. Even though he captured six championships, during his professional career, Jordan missed over 12,000 shots, lost nearly 400 games, and failed to make more than 25 would-be game-winning baskets.

Failure didn't stop Vincent Van Gogh from painting, Albert Einstein from theorizing, or Michael Jordan from playing basketball, but it has paralyzed countless leaders and prevented them from reaching their potential.

At some point, all great achievers are tempted to believe they are failures. But in spite of that, they persevere. In the face of adversity, shortcomings, and rejection, they hold onto self-belief and refuse to see themselves as failures.

What help them to rebound? I believe the following 7 abilities of achievers that enable them to rebound from failure and keep moving forward.

- Reject Rejection

Achievers who persevere do not base their self-worth on their performance. On the contrary, they have a healthy self-image that's not dictated by external events. When they fall short, rather than labeling themselves a failure, they learn from mistakes in their judgment or behavior.

- Don't Point Fingers

When people fail, they're often tempted to blame others for their lack of success. By pointing fingers, they sink into a victim mentality and cede their fate to outsiders. When playing the blame game, people rob themselves of learning from their failures and alienate others by refusing to take responsibility for mistakes.

-See Failure as Temporary

People who personalize failure see a problem as a hole they're permanently stuck in, whereas achievers see any predicament as temporary. One mindset wallows in failure, the other looks forward to success. By putting mistakes into perspective, achievers are able to see failure as a momentary event, not a symptom of a lifelong epidemic.

- Set Realistic Expectations

Unrealistic goals doom people to failure. For instance, if a person hasn't exercised for five years, then making it to a gym twice a week may be a better goal than running in next month's marathon. Also, some people insensibly expect to be perfect. Everyone fails, so expect setbacks and emotionally prepare to deal with them.

- Focus on Strengths

Don't invest time shoring up non-character flaws at the exclusion of investing in your strengths. People operating from a position of strength enjoy a far lower rate of failure than those laboring in areas of weakness. You're built to give your talents to the world; be diligent about finding expressions for them in your career.

- Vary Approaches to Achievement

In the Psychology of Achievement, Brian Tracy writes about four millionaires who made their fortunes by age 35. On average, these achievers were involved in 17 businesses before they finding the one that took them to the top. They kept trying and changing until they found something that worked.

- Bounce Back

Rehashing missteps and blunders for too long sabotages concentration and eats away at self-confidence. When dealing with failure, achievers have short memories. They quickly forget the negative emotions of setbacks and press forward resiliently. While taking pause to learn from failures, achievers realize that the past cannot be altered.

I personally believe it's nearly impossible for any person to believe he or she is a failure and move forward at the same time.( tried walking forward and backward at the same time. Its IMPOSSIBLE! You are welcome to try it! But do it while u are alone its kind of funny!)

When we are down and out,there is such a temptation to internalize failure. My hope is that anyone who has suffered setbacks, failure or disappointment recently will be able to separate life's unfortunate events from their self-worth. Failure, like death, will happen. Our response to failure holds the key to Our future.


"If you have made mistakes, even serious ones, there is always another chance for you. What we call failure is not the falling down but the staying down."

posted by Caroline Tham @ 5/07/2009 03:54:00 AM


What a MAN! Very inspired by this poem... to be a person with such values, character, personality & consistency!

If – Rudyard Kipling

If you can keep your head when all about you
Are losing theirs and blaming it on you,
If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you
But make allowance for their doubting too,
If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,
Or being lied about, don't deal in lies,
Or being hated, don't give way to hating,
And yet don't look too good, nor talk too wise:

If you can dream--and not make dreams your master,
If you can think--and not make thoughts your aim;
If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster
And treat those two impostors just the same;
If you can bear to hear the truth you've spoken
Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools,
Or watch the things you gave your life to, broken,
And stoop and build 'em up with worn-out tools:

If you can make one heap of all your winnings
And risk it all on one turn of pitch-and-toss,
And lose, and start again at your beginnings
And never breath a word about your loss;
If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew
To serve your turn long after they are gone,
And so hold on when there is nothing in you
Except the Will which says to them: "Hold on!"

If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,
Or walk with kings--nor lose the common touch,
If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you;
If all men count with you, but none too much,
If you can fill the unforgiving minute
With sixty seconds' worth of distance run,
Yours is the Earth and everything that's in it,
And--which is more--you'll be a Man, my son!

posted by Caroline Tham @ 5/07/2009 02:53:00 AM

Wednesday, March 4, 2009


I have finally decided to re-start my blog! Yes, re-start. Cos I tried
to do it sometime ago but failed to maintain it. Lately, just have the
urge to write and pent down some of my thoughts!
Never really was a writer or a poetry person. I prefer talking than
writing since young! Hahaha... But it's nice to be able to verbalize
your thoughts and have it recorded to remind yourself how far you have
come and how much you have grown!

After all, our life story is being written one day at a time... And
with His help, that story can and will be a masterpiece! Can't wait...

Sent from my iPhone


posted by Caroline Tham @ 3/04/2009 08:39:00 AM

Tuesday, March 3, 2009


Isn't he handsome?!?! U can just keep looking at him the whole day n
not get bored or tired!!! What a way to spend your day!!!

posted by Caroline Tham @ 3/03/2009 03:18:00 AM

Sunday, April 15, 2007
More than Wealth...When I surrender to Him, I will be blessed.

Prosperity is the abundant, abiding presence of the Lord Jesus in a life. Jesus makes all the difference, and as Kathryn Kuhlman so wisely observed, "The poorest man with Jesus is rich, and the richest man without Him is poor." Knowing Him - and having a personal relationship with Jesus Christ - is the greatest blessing a person can know. Oh, how I love the truth expressed by Bill Gaither:

The longer I serve Him, the sweeter He grows.
The more that I love Him, more love He bestows.
Each day is like heaven, my heart overflows
The longer I serve Him, the sweeter He grows.

This is the abundance that our heavenly Father holds before each of us today and why it is so When I surrender to Him, I will be blessed.unfortunate when people spend so much time looking for material blessing that they overlook all the other manifestations of God's blessing happening around them. True happiness comes only through surrender to the Father's will. When I surrender to Him, I will be blessed; He has promised to take care of me, and I know He will!

Remember Carol... its a Privilege & Honour to serve God. Do not take it for granted.

posted by Caroline Tham @ 4/15/2007 02:35:00 AM

Thursday, April 12, 2007


Very very true... :)

像我这样的
你会不会
来爱我
像我这样的
不够完美洒脱
我为爱前进
梦想路程
却满是伤痕
不愿退缩

take a look at me
我不松开手
在失意的时候
用音符唱着我的美丽哀愁

take a look at me
呐喊的心头彷佛再说
黑白对错
微笑面对我的生活

曾经有过为梦想失去选择
也曾走过不被祝福热烈伤痕
到现在我还是我
为爱的执着
对我来说
简单生活
会是我想要的
结果

posted by Caroline Tham @ 4/12/2007 05:45:00 PM

Tuesday, March 27, 2007
Garry Kinder

Love these inspiring moments ...

"It is not the blowing of the wind but the setting of your sails that determines your life." - Miles Hilton Barber

"If you enjoy what you do, you will never have to work again."

"Happy people are not exempt from troubles; they simply know how to shift perspective and focus on what is working in their lives." - Steve Rizzo

"Think of yourself as a market place missionary, bringing your unique calling and purpose to the world through our business and industry."

"You change the world, one appointment at a time."

"Take your butterflies home, soar with your children and listen to your families. Don't just give them good advice; give them good memories." - Marvin Feldman

"Successful people form habits of doing the things that failing people don't like to do!"


Went for a very good investment seminar today. The man that was speaking was a very sought after insurance guru for many years... Garry Kinder a man well into his 60s! Survived a tragedy of a freak accident on the road that took his wife away. His sharing was more like preaching with the goodness of the bible but without the obvious hint it is... Common Grace at work? I was mightily blessed, very motivated and encourage. Felt as if God came into that auditorium and put courage in my heart. He taught not just on closing sales or how to get clients but the essence of insurance: LOVE.

Because insurance protects, both the insured and the family. The correct motives of selling and buying is for the love of oneself and their families. He taught on being client focus and not product driven. Building long lasting relationships is what most important than meeting sales target.

I like what he shared," I believe each of us are people of dignity in the life insurance business. We don't have to apologise. We provide security for mom and the kids. We keep business doors open when the business owner dies. Think greatly about you function!"

Someone asked him." I can't take rejection well!" He answered," I've never learned to live in rejection. Rejection hurts me as much today as it did when i started 35 years ago. The difference is now I'm getting incredibly well paid for taking it! Be able to take rejection well or you'll never be able to do anything great or be successful!"

Bill Bennett,"If you pursue happiness, you wont find it. To find Happiness, pursue your work, your family and your faith. BUT to find TRUE happiness reverse it... pursue your faith, your family and than your work!" (AMEN! =)

Than he went on to teach the BIG BANG theory!!

B - BOLD Never take counsel of your fear
A - Analyse everything
N - Nice Be nice to everyone you meet
G - God Never take God our of the equation of life

( Can you believe it is a secular seminar???)

There is never been a major change in production than a major change in time management!

He end off with a wise advice: BALANCE is the key to a energetic, powerful and fulfilling life!

oooh oooh I love this:
" Our children finest qualities grow when they are fed delicious morsels of encouraging words."

Nite.

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posted by Caroline Tham @ 3/27/2007 11:12:00 PM


Well, I have decided to have a blog. It will be fun to record thoughts and events that happen and have it virtually everywhere!

I came to realise that blogging is a powerful tool too. It either make your day when u read a good blog or break yr day when you read a sad one...

A powerful saying:
"Words are mightier than a sword"

How true...

posted by Caroline Tham @ 3/27/2007 12:45:00 AM

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